Relationships are a dynamic mix of emotions. Each person has to work, take care of kids or animals, or sometimes both! Life happens and we get so caught up that we forget to take the time to reconnect. Reconnecting is a crucial piece. We make it a priority in our relationship to reconnect at least once a month, if not every week. I am not talking about the physical aspect of the relationship alone. Life can be so hectic, that you tend to overlook the need to treat your significant other like a king or queen.


We take homecations and vacations (when we can afford them). Homecations allow us to stay in our own bed, relax, and do nothing. We are fortunate enough to be able to workout at home, not spend a lot of money, and spoil each other. We are able to laugh, talk about things, and reconnect emotionally, physically, and intellectually. This is our time, and I love it so much. Just when I think I cannot love more than I already do….. I fall deeply and passionately in love with her again. As time passes, we lean more on each other, we love more than we thought possible, and we appreciate each other more and more. The communication we have during this time is extremely important because text and email comes across the wrong way most of the time, especially with sensitive topics.


During the last 5 days we were fortunate enough to get out of town and relax. It was so nice. We were able to see the future from a different lens. We talked about a great deal of things, but what I liked the most was that she showed me how much she loved me in her words, emotions, thoughts, touch, and feelings.  It was the look in her eyes, the spark, the love and passion that all relationships require.


You fell in love with each other for a reason. Reverend Blackburn believes that we can find any reason not to be in a relationship, but we need to take the time and be thankful for all the reasons why you should be in that relationship. Always be positive, never be spiteful, or disrespectful. Talk and act as you want to be treated, and reconnect!!!!!


In the end, take once a week or once a month to reconnect. It is a critical element in all relationships. It doesn’t cost anything to spend the day at home or at the park, and you will reap all the rewards from your significant other by showing them how important they are to you.


As always, thank you for your inspiration honey, love you.

About PhDMedic

I have a Ph.D. in Conflict Analysis & Resolution, with a concentration in International Peace and Conflict, and I am a National Registry Paramedic with 30 years in emergency services as a provider and educator. View all posts by PhDMedic

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